Retirement:
Don't Lose Your Sense of Purpose
What
Will Retirement Be Like?
"It
will be great to do what I want
when I want."
"Whew,
no more office politics to deal
with!"
"At
last, the government will be paying
me for a change."
"I'm
finally F-R-E-E-E!!"
These
statements reflect some of the positive
things about retirement that almost
everyone looks forward to. Unless
it's due to illness, the reason
most retirees leave their jobs is
because they want to, not because
they're pushed out. So for most,
that last day on the job is a joyful
one filled with an invigorating
sense of personal freedom.
But
many retirees are not prepared for
another feeling that often follows
that last day of work: a profound
sense of loss.
You've
Got Company
A study sponsored by Civic Ventures,
Temple University, and the Center
for Intergenerational Learning surveyed
retired people of all economic levels,
and found that the majority had
one thing in common: They felt lonely.
It wasn't for lack of friends, family
and active social lives. Instead,
it was a loneliness for the kinds
of relationships they had established
during their working years. Almost
all workers are part of teams of
some kind, and those teams have
daily problems to solve, solutions
to work out, new ideas to introduce.
An
architect who spent her life drawing
plans had an office full of people
who understood her work and appreciated
her creative new ideas. A science
teacher of many years had near-celebrity
status among his peers and his students,
who always seemed to be talking
about the cool things they were
learning in his class. The manager
of quality-control at an auto-assembly
plant felt pride in his team and
got a special thrill each fall when
the new models came out and he saw
them on the road.
At
retirement, they may all have one
thing in common: loss of a sense
of purpose. The architect's purpose
was to create satisfying designs,
the teacher's to stimulate young
minds, the quality-control manager's
to assure that his company's products
measured up to top standards. What
will replace the job satisfactions
that were so much a part of their
identities?
These
days, with rumblings that social
security might not last and with
health care costs escalating alarmingly,
many retirees find that instead
of feeling the total freedom they
dreamed about, they are haunted
by worries about whether they have
enough money saved to actually enjoy
their retired years. The fact that
people are living so much longer
than they did a decade ago should
seem like good news-but the prospect
of how to finance all those extra
years is troublesome to many people
when they leave the workforce.
It's
a fact that retirement can be an
unsettling time. But it doesn't
have to be.
Many
people have a different view of
retirement. One respondent in the
study mentioned above said: "I
like to think of myself as retiring
TO something as opposed to retiring
FROM something."
In
other words, retirement shouldn't
be a stopping point, but a continuation
of the journey through life.
Why toss all the experience you've
gained through years of working?
You're one of the "wise ones"
now. There are people out there
who value you.
A
2005 comprehensive study released
by AARP and Towers Perrin, a human
resources consulting firm, showed
that many employers are beginning
to recognize the value of older
workers. It's that old-fashioned
work ethic-you know, expecting to
actually show up on time and give
a fair day's work for a fair day's
wage. In its September, 2006, Bulletin,
AARP honored 50 US employers who
are "friendly" to older
workers.
But
doesn't going back to work defeat
the whole idea of being retired?
Isn't it supposed to be time to
stop showing up for work when someone
else says you should? You wanted
freedom, remember? Do you have to
give that up to regain that sense
of purpose?
Absolutely
not.
Thousands
of people of all ages are making
money in home businesses that allow
them to be their own bosses and
retain the exhilaration of the freedom
to run their own lives. At the same
time, they're able to generate extra
income to bulk up the nest egg and
provide substantially more financial
security for the 20, 30 or more
years to come. Freedom from financial
worry is just as important as freedom
from job demands if you're going
to enjoy the rest of your life.
And as a home-based entrepreneur,
you can still enjoy all the dreams
you planned. As long as you have
a computer and a phone, you can
run your "home" business
from anywhere you call home-including
your vacation cottage, RV, or even
your favorite beach.
If
you're retired, or soon will be,
now is the time to get started.
You already have the skills you
need. With a little extra help from
the experts, you can fine-tune them
and start right away to put a
sense of purpose back in your life.
Just
fill out the form below for additional
information on a home based business
that you can operate that will fulfill
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